{"id":6443,"date":"2010-01-12T13:50:27","date_gmt":"2010-01-12T12:50:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/?p=6443"},"modified":"2010-01-12T13:50:27","modified_gmt":"2010-01-12T12:50:27","slug":"7-tips-for-att-fa-lyckliga-barn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/?p=6443","title":{"rendered":"Lyckliga barn"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00e5 Allt om barn finns idag <a href=\"http:\/\/www.alltombarn.se\/barn\/7-tips-for-att-fa-lyckliga-barn-1.29546\" target=\"_blank\">7 tips\u00a0<\/a>f\u00f6r\u00a0att f\u00e5\u00a0lyckliga barn. <br \/>\nEtt av de tips som jag fastnade lite extra f\u00f6r var det h\u00e4r:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>&#8221;Ge ber\u00f6m f\u00f6r r\u00e4tt sak<\/strong><br \/>\nSj\u00e4lvk\u00e4nsla och lycka h\u00f6r ihop. Men m\u00e5nga f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar hamnar fel n\u00e4r de, f\u00f6r att boosta barnets sj\u00e4lvk\u00e4nsla, satsar p\u00e5 att ber\u00f6mma barnet f\u00f6r dess prestationer. Risken \u00e4r att barnet tror att det m\u00e5ste prestera f\u00f6r att f\u00e5 den h\u00e4r uppskattningen. Ber\u00f6m ist\u00e4llet barnet f\u00f6r dess anstr\u00e4ngning och inte resultatet. Ber\u00f6m kreativiteten, m\u00f6dan de lagt ner, uth\u00e5lligheten som kr\u00e4vs f\u00f6r att g\u00f6ra det de gjort ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r hur bra sj\u00e4lva produkten blev. Det f\u00e5r barnet att k\u00e4nna att det inte bara \u00e4r talang som avg\u00f6r, utan hur mycket jobb man l\u00e4gger ner. D\u00e5 beh\u00f6ver inte barnet bevisa sin talang hela tiden.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/span>H\u00e4r k\u00e4nner jag att jag s\u00e5 ofta hamnar fel. Det \u00e4r s\u00e5 l\u00e4tt att bara ber\u00f6mma n\u00e4r barnet presterar och g\u00f6r bra saker. Man gl\u00f6mmer liksom att ge ber\u00f6m\u00a0\u00e5t allt det d\u00e4r andra ocks\u00e5. S\u00e5 viktigt, tror jag, just detta med uppskattning. De ska inte beh\u00f6va k\u00e4nna att de m\u00e5ste prestera f\u00f6r att k\u00e4nna sig dukiga och v\u00e4rdefulla.<\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00e5 Allt om barn finns idag 7 tips\u00a0f\u00f6r\u00a0att f\u00e5\u00a0lyckliga barn. Ett av de tips som jag fastnade lite extra f\u00f6r var det h\u00e4r: &#8221;Ge ber\u00f6m f\u00f6r r\u00e4tt sak Sj\u00e4lvk\u00e4nsla och lycka h\u00f6r ihop. Men m\u00e5nga f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar hamnar fel n\u00e4r de, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/?p=6443\">Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,181],"tags":[221,67,224],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6443"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6443"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6443\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6443"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6443"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trebarnslandet.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6443"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}